Today we're in Lynchburg, VA at Liberty University for Abby's first real College visit. We left yesterday for the LONG road trip up here. We used to live about an hour south of Lynchburg in a town called Danville. We were both looking forward to getting back up there and reminiscing about old times... well, I was... she was only 2 years old when we lived there, so she doesn't remember anything. Why are we driving such a long way to visit a college? There are a couple of reasons: 1) We began praying about where God wanted Abby to go to school several months ago... Don't ask me why, but Liberty was one of those schools that the Lord impressed upon both of our hearts to visit. It's a great school with a great heritage. And it turns out some pretty great people who are serving the Lord faithfully. The other is 2) I get to spend some quality time with my, almost 17 year old, daughter that I'm about to unleash on the world in 18 months. This will give us a chance to talk, laugh, and think about the future. The ride was long and I wanted to be intentional about bringing certain things up in conversation... so, I came up with 10 things I want my daughter to know. Here are the things I shared with her on our trip:
- I love her and I'm proud of her-- she brings me great joy not because of anything she's done, but because of who she is.
- She is loved unconditionally by the Father. Even when her earthly father screws up and lets her down, she has a heavenly Father who is perfect and will love her perfectly.
- God has great plans for her. As long as she seeks the Lord with all her heart, she will find Him and she will find her purpose and calling.
- Life's too short let worry consume you... so don't
- You can't control other people or things... so don't let it get to you.
- Get so lost in God that you attract boys that will pursue Him just to get to you. (from Dannah Gresh)
- Fulfill your passion. life's too short not to live out of your passion.
- Give generously- you can't outgive God... ever! He will always bless you more
- Always see the Big Picture.
- You can ALWAYS come home, no matter what!
10 things I want her to know as she is preparing to enter into the adult world very soon... sooner than her mom and I are ready for... but this is why God gave her to us... to prepare her, to launch her and to cheer her on in pursuing her God given purpose. I'll write more about our trip later.